BELIEVE IN YOU

Hey everyone,I am your friend who want to share something I recently learnt.We all have problems in our life.I am not going to say that by reading this all your problems will be gone.But I would say that you would get the courage to face your problems.

First I would like to introduce myself.My name is keerthana devi.I live with my mom and dad.My hobbies are reading and writing books.There is nothing interesting to say about me Except the fact that I am unique.

Ok enough about me,lets begin.


Every one have their own problems.If a father has a financial problem,the son would have homework problem.
We may have a happy life with friends and family but suddenly we would stand alone with no one by our side.
We may have everything money,frame,popularity,etc. but there wont be happiness.
There would be a time when everyone much choose a path of their own paths in their life.


 Ok lets see, I asked many of my friends about their life.Some said they are living a wonderful life but some said they hate their life.
I am sure 99% that at a certain time when something we don't like happens we all get mad.
 when that something turns into many different thing and happens continuously in our life is the time when we hate ourselves.It is one of our common problem.

Then when we are alone when everyone are together,we hate ourselves and also others for treating us badly.

Its human nature to get angry and so and so but it is always better to share your anger with someone.

There are many other things that will make us mad and some don't even know why they get angry so easily for a small matter.

Some even don't know why they hate themselves so much.

A friend of mine said that she hate herself.I was shocked and asked why.She told me "My parents are not believing me and always doubting me.Even though I was being good and doing as they wish they are still hesitant to believe me.But look look at others parents they never questions their child even though they are doing something bad".

At that time I thought that this is the main problem in us.We will always compare ourself with others.
I knew that many youngsters these days have the same problem as my friend.They say their parents are doubting them but I would rather say it as protective.

We all will say that their parents are like this and that to their children but have we ever wondered how it would be for parents in their point of view,

A simple reason for some parents to being protective is because of their age and experience.
One if our parents are aged they would surely be protective or your parents would have had some bad experience and they don't want you to have the same.

I would like to tell my friends who hate themselves for various reasons that YOU CAN HATE YOURSELF ALL YOU WANT BUT AT LEAST FOR THE SAKE OF SOME ONE WHO LOVE YOU OR THE PERSON WHOM YOU LOVE OR AT LEAST FOR ME, WHO REALLY WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY,BELIEVE IN YOU.

I want you all to believe in yourself at least 1%.I know many would hate me by now but I just want to complete what I started.

I know someone who was hated by their own parents.They didn't even had a friend in their life time but even so they believed in themselves.Even though everyone wanted them to die or to disappear they fought on their own and won the hearts of the same people who wanted them to disappear.

That is life.People may look our weakness and laugh but once our weakness becomes our strength that is when everyone will look up on us.Even though the whole world hate us we must love ourselves.That is the key to the success.


So I would like to conclude this with a small story.I don't know how many know this story but anyway.


Once there was a saint with his students.Everyday they all went from house to house seeking food as they believe it as god graced.One day as they went to a certain house like that ,the owner of the house shouted at them"What is different between you people and beggars. You are also begging like them for food.I cannot give food to some people like you.Never come back to my house.Just go and beg somewhere else".All this time the saint stood smiling.When they went far one of his student asked him"Master,why had you smiled when that man was shouting.You should have gotten angry".At that time the saint smiled and handed the student a stick and asked "Now I gave you this stick so whom does it belong?".The student said"Me,master"."That's right.You got it from me so it belongs to you if not it would have been mine.Now you see whom does the words that man told belongs as I didn't got them".


This is a small story but the moral is great.If we all have this kind of mentality we can always be happy.


A free advice don't smile like the saint when someone shouts on you because we may even annoy them and it would be like pouring petrol to the burning fire.You can laugh alone after the person has gone.

Ok then I hope atleast few will follow this advice and it will be helpful for atleast 1 or 2.

 I say my bye to all and farewell.